Decision Making

Why is it so hard to make a decision? Choosing between options has always been a dilemma for anyone. People just cant make up their mind provided all the choices they are given. But one way or another we still have to decide-- most of it are emotionally driven, some are fun driven, some are stability driven. Although I always say that if I think twice about something it means I dont really want it that badly. Some thoughts can be right away put out in the trash bin with no effort needed while other ideas still hover and slowly get the best of me.

So a challenge came out of it: if I dont want it why does it still linger in my mind??? Why do I always end up re-considering it? Why does it became a constant thought that I re-visit once in a while?

There's no way to handle it but to either DO IT or NOT DO IT. Life is an experiment. Life should be fun. We have to choose one thing over the other and through it we learn slowly about ourself and release the thought of pondering to what might have been. If it's not great as what we hoped for then no regrets.I believe we only get confused if there's an enormous part of us that wants it. I would not say that life is a hit or miss..i think it is more of taking chances. Having the courage to do what your gut tells you--do as you pleases..let the flow take you to wherever.. =)